You have a comprehension problem. Please point out where I said I was incapable of learning from any accident. You asked me what I'd learned from *this* accident.
At no point have I said whose fault I think it was, and you don't know what my atbreastude is in that regard, let alone whether its typical or not. You decided to pontificate about my atbreastude to driving based on inevitably incomplete information about an event at which you weren't even present, and at which I wasn't driving. You don't even know how fast the car was travelling at the time.
You asked me what I'd learned from *this* incident, got extremely sanctimonious when I pointed out that I'd learned nothing I didn't know already, and decided to take that as an arrogant buttumption that I think I know all there is to know.
I didn't need to be involved in the incident to learn any of the things that you list above. I learned those over 25 years of driving something like a million miles in dozens of different countries. The fact they might have been things you needed to learn is your concern, and if you've done so, then all well and good. The fact that I didn't need to learn them as a result of this incident doesn't give you the right to pontificate about your misguided buttessment of my driving.
Brian